(A few gentle tips for women and men)

The last few weeks have been filled with beautiful sessions, consultations, and deep conversations with both women and men — mostly about relationships…

I’m deeply moved and touched… words fail me. 🙂
I love your sensitivity, honesty, the search for answers, and the willingness to change what no longer serves you…🦋

The desire to heal, to improve relationships, to open up to new love… 🕊️🥂💍
It’s so beautiful and real…

There’s so much love, courage, and hope within us…🕊️

That’s why I want to share a few reflections — for both sides… ❤

Women often say: „It’s his ego… he’s cold, distant, emotionless…”
In the beginning, he was so warm, present… and then?

Then real life begins — emotions, subconscious patterns that we trigger in each other like mirrors…🪞

Work, children, responsibilities — everyday life that needs care and attention.

That’s why inner work on both sides is so important…🎉

Masculine ego fears rejection and pain.
It doesn’t need a fight — it needs understanding, tenderness, and love that is present and patient.

That’s why a man withdraws when he feels judged, criticized, or compared.

He needs presence — one that doesn’t want to take anything away, teach, or fix him — but simply be… with trust, stillness, and empathy.🙏

A man’s ego is often a heavy armor — strong and cold — not because he wants to hurt, but because he protects his heart.

A heart that was once left without protection, without comfort…

Many men were never truly embraced — by their mother or those close to them — they were left to cope alone.

This feeling still lives deep within them…

Every boy who heard “boys don’t cry”, “stop whining”, “be brave”… learned that sensitivity must be hidden.

That vulnerability is weakness… not manly.

But now, as adults, this armor doesn’t protect them — it imprisons them.

This is where the beautiful role of women comes in…❤️

A woman is light — not to blind him, but to warm him…🌞
To feel with him…🔥
To support, not judge…🍀
To honor the difficult parts of her partner…🌹

A man who runs away from feelings is not running away from you — he’s running away from himself.

He’s afraid…

Afraid of the trembling within him, of the voice saying:
“You’re not enough.”

Afraid of the inner child that still remembers love equaling pain.

Often, this has its roots in his relationship with his mother.

To help him open up — don’t mirror his fears — become the space where he feels safe to be vulnerable.

Don’t try to save him — just be tenderly present.

See his fear — don’t condemn it — just stay beside him… in your way…

Feel his distance — but don’t take it personally.

He’s not rejecting you — he simply hasn’t yet learned how to fully accept himself.

Both sides have their journey — and the way to the heart is often long.

Everyone goes through it in their own time and space…

And sometimes, crisis brings people to this moment…

And remember — you are not obligated to wait for anyone who isn’t willing to reach for love — true, wild, deep love — even if it’s right in front of them.

You can love with an open heart and leave with respect — if their soul isn’t ready for „us”.

But if you stay — let it be the choice of your soul, not fear.

Let it be your decision — to support and be beside them.

Because only unconditional love has the power to melt the ice of a man’s ego.💎

Not force.
Gentleness.
Presence.
Truth.

Be a mirror — not a critic.
Respect his sensitivity and rhythm.
Nourish his soul.
Love truly — but never at the cost of yourself.

I’m holding close all your broken pieces…
Time and love will heal them…

And beautiful inner work with wounds, patterns, and roles is worth it.

Feel free to send this message to anyone who may need it — I write this for you.🙏❤️

With all my heart — sending you love and beautiful energy 🔥🔥🔥