Dear ones, let me tell you about a woman…
Prepare tissues, as this is a very emotional story about strength, courage, and resilience… the longing for freedom… 😮💨
About self-acceptance, one’s path, past, and love for life.
This is one of many stories, but I’m sharing it to raise awareness of how programs in our subconscious work and how they condition our entire lives… how many of them are within us… ❤
„A woman over 50… without children…
Born to make peace between her parents, as the fourth daughter, while her father was waiting for a son…
From the start, unwanted, she was a bargaining chip… in the family.
Her grandparents asked her mother to have an abortion…
Her childhood was spent on a farm, surrounded by animals and nature, where there was no time, attention, care, or love for her… It was lacking… Her parents couldn’t, didn’t know how, didn’t have the time or resources… her father chose alcohol and friends…
Her mother had to work and was often absent from home…
She only heard words like “be quiet,” “children and fish have no voice,” “you can’t do anything,” “go away, don’t disturb,” “if someone hurts you, do twice as well so they wonder where you got all that love from,” “only hard work will bring you money,” “men are bad,” “women lie,” “you can’t trust anyone”…
…these are just a few examples from her life and the beliefs she lived with for years… she was humiliated, beaten, and often mocked by her closest ones…
She lived her life hungry for love and gave her time, attention, and body to others…
She searched for and longed for a hug, kind words, recognition, respect, and love…
She earned titles, diplomas, promotions… positions, to be seen… appreciated…
To hear from her parents… “you’re important… smart… loved, needed…”
She suffered a lot and endured many humiliations from women because of her looks, her smile, her joy… her well-maintained body…
From men as well… for her warmth, openness, and truth… she sought love, but they saw only her body…
So, she shut down, protected herself, and chose silence… loneliness.”
Today, this woman is a strong, independent, and loving person who does beautiful and great things for businesses and society… she never gave up, she rose, she fell, and believed there was another way… a way of love, truth, recognition, dignity, respect, goodness, and wonderful relationships.
She has her passions, friends, and many ideas for life…
She worked through the programs of unworthiness, created a healthy and true relationship, and believed that people are good and can give so much… that unity is possible…
Through her own therapies…
She met that little girl in her subconscious, gave her resources, soothed her pain, loneliness, and fear…
She forgave herself for self-sabotage and forgave her parents for their shortcomings, for raising her the way they could…
She loved her sisters and the women from her family who had rejected her…
She healed her father wounds and mother wounds…
She forgave her partners who were her mirrors and greatest teachers…
She stepped out of the victim and perpetrator roles, authors of these stories…
(Our souls often choose families and histories to experience and learn… to grow)
When I listened to her life… 😭😭😭😭
She created a family full of respect and love… she didn’t give up… she believed in another life, one full of peace, love, and goodness.
Generational traumas, transgenerational traumas, and all our childhood is a treasure chest of knowledge and resources…
That’s where our talents, gifts, and potentials are hidden… frozen in the bodies of those little children who wanted to survive… to live…!!!
That’s why I always write here not to give up, to believe in love, yourself, goodness, others, your dreams, and goals…
Seek support, release hidden emotions from your bodies, your heart from pain and longing, your soul from suffering…
I see it every day, how people regain their freedom in every area of life… and those tears of emotion… love… and the word… thank you 🙂
Have a wonderful day, filled with love ❤️