About relationships. Long, but to the point. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>
After many consultations this week, I feel deeply moved, and I\u2019ve also prepared some theory for you.
I\u2019ve outlined it in bullet points to make it easier to understand the patterns and healing mechanisms.<\/p>
I love working with you because you are direct and want to solve problems.
Feel what resonates within you and I invite you to sessions \u2014 I\u2019m a practitioner. \ud83d\ude4f<\/p>
Bert Hellinger, founder of Family Constellations, believed that men leave, become emotionally unavailable, or abandon relationships mainly due to unconscious, deeply rooted family and systemic dynamics.<\/p>
Here are the key reasons behind men\u2019s behaviors in relationships:<\/p>
A man may unconsciously repeat the fate of his father, grandfather, or ancestors who left, were rejected, or abandoned their families.
This often comes from hidden loyalty to the family lineage.<\/p>
If a man was overly emotionally attached to his mother (e.g., taking the place of an absent father), he may struggle to build a healthy relationship with a partner.
Subconsciously, he may feel guilty for choosing another woman, leading him to withdraw.<\/p>
If a man rejects or lacks a good relationship with his father, he may struggle to find his masculine strength and stability in a relationship.
As a result, he may become unstable, insecure, or avoid commitment.<\/p>
If there are unresolved traumas in the family system \u2014 such as death, betrayal, abandonment, or war \u2014 the man may unconsciously feel he doesn\u2019t deserve happiness or love, causing him to distance himself from loved ones.<\/p>
Hellinger emphasized that a healthy relationship is based on balance.
If a man feels he gives too much or struggles to receive, he may withdraw to avoid feeling indebted or drained.<\/p>
If a man does not fully accept his partner \u2014 her story, family, or past \u2014 he may subconsciously distance himself or look for an escape.<\/p>
Some men experienced rejection or abandonment in childhood, which makes them afraid of closeness and commitment.
When a relationship becomes too deep, they may run away to avoid potential hurt.<\/p>
My work focuses on reaching unconscious beliefs and emotions that cause relationship difficulties \u2014 bringing systemic order.<\/p>
Here are some effective methods I use, depending on the issue:<\/p>
Each session is different and tailored individually to the client’s level of awareness and readiness for change. The key is reaching the root pattern and transforming it on a subconscious level.<\/p>
Wishing you courage to face the truth…<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
About relationships. Long, but to the point. \ud83d\ude09 After many consultations this week, I feel deeply moved, and I\u2019ve also prepared some theory for you.I\u2019ve outlined it in bullet points to make it easier to understand the patterns and healing mechanisms. I love working with you because you are direct and want to solve problems.Feel<\/p>\n